The terrible moment she discovered her mother and husband sharing a bed, as well as the terrible consequences for the family, was revealed by a seven-month pregnant woman.
An expectant mother who is devastated has spoken up about how her life was completely upended and the terrible family conflict that ensued. In her instance, the betrayal is even more terrible than learning that your lover has cheated on you. Her spouse had been having an affair with her own mother, she discovered.
Even worse, the romance has continued for an astounding 22 years, which is the length of their marriage. To make matters worse, she discovered that several of her siblings are actually the biological offspring of her husband.
The woman revealed the emotional devastation she is experiencing on Reddit by sharing her traumatic story while she was seven months pregnant. She claims that her mother has now accused her of “ruining her life” by coming clean.
She wrote, describing the background: “I am forty years of age. My parents have been married for 43 years; my mother is 60 and my father is 63. There are six of my siblings. Since the age of 15, my 39-year-old spouse and I have been together.
“We’re trying for a baby, but my husband is gay.” “We have a great sex life.”
At the age of 17, I became pregnant, and my parents took us in. I gave birth to my daughter, who is now 22 years old. Soon after, we were married at the age of 18. My father inherited his ranch-style home from my dad’s father, who passed away soon after our wedding. My parents retired, and my grandparents constructed a house next door. In addition to telling us that this house would be my inheritance, my parents chose to let us reside there. This was not a problem for my husband or me. Our children are now five, fourteen, and twenty years old, and I am seven months along in my pregnancy with my final child, a boy, who is due in April.”
Following her description of their close-knit family and their seemingly happy family life, she expresses her surprise at learning of her mother’s and husband’s affair. “I believed I had a good marriage,” she says. “We went on date nights, were intimate more than twice a week, bought each other gifts, and didn’t quarrel. On New Year’s Eve, I returned early from a girl’s trip with some friends, and it completely rocked my world. My mother and my husband were having sex when I entered my bedroom. When my mother yelled at me to leave “their” bedroom, I became even more shaken.
She confronted her husband and learned that his sexual relationship with her mother had been going on for years, much longer than her marriage. “I pressed him to tell the truth. He told me that while we were living in their home at the age of 18, my mother wooed him. She went on to say, “They had been engaging in unprotected sex at least once a month for longer than we were married.” “I ran the math and was horrified because the timeline meant my twin brothers and youngest brother could be my husband’s.”
“I made my husband confess and my dad was devastated, he and my mum were high school sweethearts too,” she added, warning her father about his wife’s infidelity. Naturally, when he addressed my mother, we could hear her yelling from her home.”
She describes how she hosted a party at her sister’s house and used the occasion to tell everyone about her mother and husband’s connection, causing a rift within the family. “At the party, I had my 22 F daughter take all the kids to our basement and put on a movie, leaving only the adult children and siblings, and I told them exactly what they’d been doing,” she continues.
The majority of the family is on my side, she added, with the exception of my three youngest siblings, my 38-year-old sister, and my ex’s whole family. Everyone calls me an AH for making this public.
This is where things get worse for the original poster, though, as she discloses the criticism directed at her mother, who was fired from her position as a children’s pastor because of her adultery. She elaborates: “My mum has since been let go as the children’s pastor there and she claims I’ve essentially ruined her reputation and life.”
She goes on to discuss her plans for divorce and her strained connection with her mother as well as the consequences and its effects on her family. She clarified: “I’ve been away from my mother for more than a month, and I’m still really upset and resentful of her, especially for her hypocrisy in calling me a w* and humiliating my family when she’s done far worse. I also hate my ex with all of my heart because he was sometimes f***ing me and my mother when he came to our bed a few minutes later. He got my mother pregnant less than a week after he got me pregnant, and although I found it adorable and enjoyable that I was sharing my pregnancy with my mother, she was expecting my children’s half-siblings. He has destroyed my faith in men and their faithfulness.
The original posting has received a lot of praise on Reddit, with one user commenting: “Well done for not actually killing your hubby. I wouldn’t be as powerful. You should retitle this from “I ruined my mum’s life and reputation,” someone else wrote. “My mum destroyed our family, and at the same time ruined her own life and reputation” .. You are a victim, just like the rest of your family, who were harmed by this, and you done nothing wrong at all.” A third said: “I fixed it for you there, even though my mother ruined her life.”
