Whether they are the child’s grandfather, uncle, or cousin, she claims it makes no difference to her.
When Aubrey stated that she wouldn’t leave her daughter alone with a male relative, it caused a stir on the internet.
The mother of two expressed her contentious viewpoint on TikTok, where she uses the handle @theorganicmami.
As a first-time mother, the young mother revealed the “controversial” ways she is raising her daughter in a GRWT (Get Ready With Me) video.
“No sleepovers—not even with relatives. And she won’t ever be left by herself with a man. “I don’t care if you’re the cousin, the uncle, or the grandparent,” she says at the start of the video.
She continues by saying she won’t treat her girl any differently than she would a son.
She explains, “For example, I let my son go out late but not my daughter because it’s too risky for a woman. I’m just going to treat them both the same.”
Furthermore, according to Aubrey, her children will be unable to hide anything from her and her spouse.
Your parents will not be kept in the dark about anything. In the video, she adds, “If you’re among those folks who say, ‘I’ll give you candy when your mum’s not here, just don’t tell her,’ that’s the quickest way to never see us again.
She also establishes guidelines for the folks who are allowed to be near her daughter.
In the video, she states, “just because you asked her to and because you’re a relative and haven’t seen her in a long time, she doesn’t have to kiss you, hug you, or sit on your lap.”
Since she is still a child, she is free to have opinions and feelings, thus she doesn’t have to respect you if you don’t respect her in return.
In addition, Aubrey intends to homeschool her daughter and attempt alternative medicine before relying on Western medicine.
In the video, she states, “We’re not going to implement a public school system that forces you to spend eight hours at a desk and not learn anything you truly care about.”
“I am teaching her how to advocate for herself, establish boundaries, and say no,” she added.
According to Aubrey, she is also teaching her kid that she can always confide in her and that she doesn’t need to conceal anything.
In the comments, opinions were divided. By denying her kid sleepovers, others said she was depriving her of her early years.
Will her pals’ sleepovers be prohibited forever? No bias. “Those were some of my favorite childhood memories,” someone said.
“If you know the parents and the child, I don’t see the harm in sleepovers; they’re honestly some of my best memories,” another person said.
The young mother was commended by others for prioritizing her daughter.
As a child, I experienced a lot of things during a sleepover! “Well done, mommy,” someone said.
Another said: “My mother used to make me really angry when she wouldn’t allow me attend sleepovers. But I get it now that I’m a mother.
As a child, I was compelled to accept embraces, hugs, and sitting on the laps of male family members and friends, according to a third. It was “cute,” and I was traumatized by it.
